Taylor Swift dating history: A relationship timeline through love and music


Taylor Swift, the Grammy-winning music sensation, has graced headlines not only for her chart-topping hits but also for her high-profile romantic relationships. As her career skyrocketed, so did the public’s fascination with her love life. Here’s a timeline highlighting Swift’s noteworthy romances:

2008: Joe Jonas

Taylor’s early years in the spotlight saw a whirlwind romance with Joe Jonas, a member of the Jonas Brothers. Their relationship became tabloid fodder and even inspired some of Swift’s earliest songs.


2009: Taylor Lautner

Following her split with Jonas, the singer briefly dated actor Taylor Lautner after co-starring with him in the film “Valentine’s Day,” adding a Hollywood twist to her romantic history.

2010: Jake Gyllenhaal

One of her most publicized relationships, the Anti-Hero singer and actor Jake Gyllenhaal’s romance was heavily scrutinized due to their notable age gap. The aftermath of their breakup was rumored to have inspired some of Swift’s emotionally charged tracks.

2012: Conor Kennedy & Harry Styles

Taylor’s brief flings with Conor Kennedy, a member of the famous Kennedy family, and Harry Styles from One Direction sparked immense media interest and speculation about her songs’ lyrical content.

2015-2016: Calvin Harris

In a departure from her usual publicized relationships, Taylor found love with DJ and producer Calvin Harris. Their low-key romance garnered attention until its amicable end, stirring curiosity about the muse behind Swift’s subsequent music.

2016: Tom Hiddleston

Taylor’s highly publicized and whirlwind romance with actor Tom Hiddleston set social media abuzz with paparazzi shots of their travels together. Despite the frenzy, their relationship was short-lived.

2017: Joe Alwyn

During the beginning, Taylor’s relationship with actor Joe Alwyn has been notably private. The couple has kept their romance away from the public eye, offering only occasional glimpses during interviews and subtle references in Swift’s music. A year later, British tabloid The Sun broke the news that couple is indeed dating and that the singer has been staying in London in disguise.

They went public with their romance in December 2017 as they grooved together at Ed Sheeran concert. In March 2018, the actress got a tattoo of his initials on her neck.

Their relationship seemed to be on track until it was reported by Entertainment Tonight in April 2023, that it has run its course. The report added that the split was “not dramatic.”

2023: Matt Healy

Taylor and Matt first met in 2014 as friends, but rumours swirled that the singer has found love in her friend and in 2016, the 1975 frontman had made some not-so-friendly comments about the possibility.

In May 2023, the rumours of Matty dating began surfacing as Tay was fresh off her 6-year relationship with Joe. It was reported by Entertainment Tonight that it was Jack Antonoff who connected the pair. However, due Matty’s questionable comments over Taylor’s gal pal and ‘Karma’ collaborator, Ice Spice, they seemed to call it quits.

2023: Travis Kelce

Now, we are in the current dating era – Taylor’s version. When Taylor performed in Kansas for her Eras Tour, among the audience was Kansas City Chief’s tight end, Travis, who was on a mission to befriend the singer.

In September, the Blank Space singer was spotted at NFL star’s game, not one but two games, to showcase her support. The pair were then spotted strolling in public holding hands and not shying away from PDA.

During her Buenos Aires, Argentina, performance, in November, the singer also gave shoutout to her boyfriend, and confirmed their romance. As if this wasn’t enough, post her performance, Tay ran into her boyfriend on stage and the couple were seen locking in their lips, making the crowd go in screams.

Taylor Swift’s dating life has undeniably intertwined with her music, serving as inspiration for many of her heartfelt ballads and empowering anthems. Her journey through love’s highs and lows has been a testament to her ability to connect with fans on a deeply personal level.